Barrel through my words as fast as you can. Then tin/tan, and not fuckoff.
I am no longer a nice guy. Nice guys finish last. Nice guys are the guys who stay up late with the hot chicks on the phone while those chicks talk about the guys that they are having sex with (bad boys). Being a nice guy doesn't matter until minimum 28-29 when the attractive women, whom have been partying and banging the biker or the drug dealer, finally get fed up of a decade of being treated like garbage (Which they actually liked) and realize they aren't in their exact prime anymore. So suddenly they start looking for security and stability to raise a family since the bad boys don't have that. They start licking their chops at nice guys, whom hadn't been able to get dates or anything so instead generally studied and read books and probably became stable or wealthy into their 30's.
Those are the types of girls whom on dating sites say "I'm 32 now i've had my fun, I want to settle down". This is basically saying "I didn't want to have sex or date you when we were 20 because you were boring, and I was hot enough to get the exciting jerk quarterback of our university football team so I laughed at you. But now, some years later, when the bad boys have pumped and dumped me over and over and i'm starting to fade in my looks slightly, you look pretty good Want to go out some time?". Most nice guys would get suckered in and think "Wow she liked me all this time" and go for it, but I won't. If I wasn't good for her then, why should I be good for her now.
Chivalry is dead. Being a gentlemen died when Feminism reared it's ugly head into society. Women want to be treated equally. Sure. That means I don't hold doors open for them anymore since they are so independent and equal, they can open their own door just as easily. I have not turned into an asshole, but am definitely not a nice guy anymore. After years of observation you can only make one logical conclusion as to why young attractive women are with complete jerks. Because they think that's the way they deserve to be treated.
This is why if you are planning, as a guy, to bang/date a young hot chick, you must be prepared 9 times out of 10 to be a jerk, neglect her, and act as if she is unimportant at times. There are literally droves of men, that were just like me growing up who said this exact same thing to themselves "I like her so much. Why is she with that jerk? I would treat her like a queen... She says she wants a nice guy, here I am!". The young women also go to the extent of although dating and banging a jerk, they also have the nerve to constantly complain about him to her friends and guy friends. "Omg he's suuuuch a jerk sometimes" ... "But I Loooooove him!".
I am saying this because in the end, most normal men who do not have mental handicaps just want to get laid. It's our nature to just have sex to (obviously) reproduce. So in the grand scheme of things, you must look at the result to see who is winning that natural drive. We must ask "Who is getting laid?" the answer is an overwhelming majority of guys getting laid are jerks, assholes, and douches.
As for me? My plan is to drive 100% the path of wealth, not caring for much else save a few days off a weekend. After wealth is achieved, I will either, using that wealth, turn around and bang as many 21-24 year old chicks as possible as a kind of mini-revenge to the hot chicks currently my age who won't touch me. Or, if on the off chance I meet a beautiful woman who has a traditional mindset (Man/Women specific roles) I would glady raise a family with her. But lets face it, finding a woman with traditional values in North America is like trying to find paris hilton not intoxicated on something.
Women love and respect mean men & men who do not give them what they want or do not cave in to their attempts to change them.
Bottom line, if you want to succeed in the getting laid department you must:
1. Be a man. Learn to say no and be the boss. Tell her you'll call her tomorrow, then call 2 days later.
or2. Become extremely wealthy, and you will have 18-25 year old 10 out of 10's lining up at your door begging for you to fuck them.
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Your right. But even hot nice guys don't get laid (that much) compared to jerk hot guys.
and a dick to them, and have unrealistic ways about dealing with women, put them on too high of a pedastal so that when they hurt you in whatever way, you spurn the fuck out of them and all like them, or you pick the shitty shallow girls in the first place.... In any event, 83% of the time im sure its You and not Them.
and a dick to them, and have unrealistic ways about dealing with women, put them on too high of a pedastal so that when they hurt you in whatever way, you spurn the fuck out of them and all like them, or you pick the shitty shallow girls in the first place.... In any event, 83% of the time im sure its You and not Them.
Putting them on a pedestal is called being a nice guy. That's why nice guys barely ever get laid. Don't get me wrong, eventually the nice guy will find that one chick to spread her legs for him every so often, but she won't like it as much as an exciting bad boy would take her.
"Shitty shallow" girls are the hot chicks, men generally want the hottest chick they can afford. Eventually nice guys will choose uglier women whom, since ugly, have lower standards and are excited that even anyone is talking to them.
Nope. Never said I hated women either. That is always a quick assumption people make when I talk about this. Counter-intuitive to common sense, you would think that women would love and respect nice men, but that's just not the way it works. So when your single mommy raises you to be the perfect gentlemen, your barely ever going to get laid and it's definitely not going to be in the 9-10/10 range. All I'm saying is there is a specific approach you must take if you want to get laid in North America with hot north american chicks.
Edit: I can't believe I'm giving wolffe advice. But anyway, if that don't work. Kill yourself.
and a dick to them, and have unrealistic ways about dealing with women, put them on too high of a pedastal so that when they hurt you in whatever way, you spurn the fuck out of them and all like them, or you pick the shitty shallow girls in the first place.... In any event, 83% of the time im sure its You and not Them.
Putting them on a pedestal is called being a nice guy. That's why nice guys barely ever get laid. Don't get me wrong, eventually the nice guy will find that one chick to spread her legs for him every so often, but she won't like it as much as an exciting bad boy would take her.
"Shitty shallow" girls are the hot chicks, men generally want the hottest chick they can afford. Eventually nice guys will choose uglier women whom, since ugly, have lower standards and are excited that even anyone is talking to them.
Wrong, putting them on a pedestal is making them out to be more than they are, in a way, over exaggerating their worth so to speak.
Being a nice guy is manners decency and respect etc.
im a fuckin ugly pit of an american and ive been laid hella many times by damn good looking girls by any standards - sober too, aint gonna lie, it aint cause i got a big dick or money cause i aint got either of them, but its mainly cause im a damn nice guy who respects people for who they are untill i have reason to do otherwise.
That whole bad boys/superficial/shitty shallow girls thing, well, I dont have the ability at the moment to eloquently put it so im just gonna say its a vicious circle.
Im gonna go on a limb here and assume you went after the hottest chick in school, made her 10x's hotter in your infatuation (puttting ona pedestal) and then expected her to like you because you were nice and shit, then when she laughed at you, probably in her shallow oh look its the hunchback way that schoolkids can be so cruel with, it hurt you, and it hurt you like a mutherfuckin trainwreck that youve yet to recover from, but you kept trying for girls that you set retarded 1-10 scale standards on and found every time they trurned you down, so it burns even more untill youve become resentful and now tahts your presumptions of all these girls, which is where we are now with you. Maybe if you yourself left the superficicality at home youd have better chances at finding girls. Seems to me like all yovue ever are the "mean girls" type, the superficial ones and anything else in your eyes are ugly. shit starts with you bud, sovle it with you.
Of course i could be wrong but i doubt it, that or you were raised very male chauvinistic or with some kind of inferior complex.
and a dick to them, and have unrealistic ways about dealing with women, put them on too high of a pedastal so that when they hurt you in whatever way, you spurn the fuck out of them and all like them, or you pick the shitty shallow girls in the first place.... In any event, 83% of the time im sure its You and not Them.
Putting them on a pedestal is called being a nice guy. That's why nice guys barely ever get laid. Don't get me wrong, eventually the nice guy will find that one chick to spread her legs for him every so often, but she won't like it as much as an exciting bad boy would take her.
"Shitty shallow" girls are the hot chicks, men generally want the hottest chick they can afford. Eventually nice guys will choose uglier women whom, since ugly, have lower standards and are excited that even anyone is talking to them.
Wrong, putting them on a pedestal is making them out to be more than they are, in a way, over exaggerating their worth so to speak.
Being a nice guy is manners decency and respect etc.
im a fuckin ugly pit of an american and ive been laid hella many times by damn good looking girls by any standards - sober too, aint gonna lie, it aint cause i got a big dick or money cause i aint got either of them, but its mainly cause im a damn nice guy who respects people for who they are untill i have reason to do otherwise.
That whole bad boys/superficial/shitty shallow girls thing, well, I dont have the ability at the moment to eloquently put it so im just gonna say its a vicious circle.
Im gonna go on a limb here and assume you went after the hottest chick in school, made her 10x's hotter in your infatuation (puttting ona pedestal) and then expected her to like you because you were nice and shit, then when she laughed at you, probably in her shallow oh look its the hunchback way that schoolkids can be so cruel with, it hurt you, and it hurt you like a mutherfuckin trainwreck that youve yet to recover from, but you kept trying for girls that you set retarded 1-10 scale standards on and found every time they trurned you down, so it burns even more untill youve become resentful and now tahts your presumptions of all these girls, which is where we are now with you. Maybe if you yourself left the superficicality at home youd have better chances at finding girls. Seems to me like all yovue ever are the "mean girls" type, the superficial ones and anything else in your eyes are ugly. shit starts with you bud, sovle it with you.
Of course i could be wrong but i doubt it, that or you were raised very male chauvinistic or with some kind of inferior complex.
and a dick to them, and have unrealistic ways about dealing with women, put them on too high of a pedastal so that when they hurt you in whatever way, you spurn the fuck out of them and all like them, or you pick the shitty shallow girls in the first place.... In any event, 83% of the time im sure its You and not Them.
Putting them on a pedestal is called being a nice guy. That's why nice guys barely ever get laid. Don't get me wrong, eventually the nice guy will find that one chick to spread her legs for him every so often, but she won't like it as much as an exciting bad boy would take her.
"Shitty shallow" girls are the hot chicks, men generally want the hottest chick they can afford. Eventually nice guys will choose uglier women whom, since ugly, have lower standards and are excited that even anyone is talking to them.
Wrong, putting them on a pedestal is making them out to be more than they are, in a way, over exaggerating their worth so to speak.
Being a nice guy is manners decency and respect etc.
im a fuckin ugly pit of an american and ive been laid hella many times by damn good looking girls by any standards - sober too, aint gonna lie, it aint cause i got a big dick or money cause i aint got either of them, but its mainly cause im a damn nice guy who respects people for who they are untill i have reason to do otherwise.
That whole bad boys/superficial/shitty shallow girls thing, well, I dont have the ability at the moment to eloquently put it so im just gonna say its a vicious circle.
Im gonna go on a limb here and assume you went after the hottest chick in school, made her 10x's hotter in your infatuation (puttting ona pedestal) and then expected her to like you because you were nice and shit, then when she laughed at you, probably in her shallow oh look its the hunchback way that schoolkids can be so cruel with, it hurt you, and it hurt you like a mutherfuckin trainwreck that youve yet to recover from, but you kept trying for girls that you set retarded 1-10 scale standards on and found every time they trurned you down, so it burns even more untill youve become resentful and now tahts your presumptions of all these girls, which is where we are now with you. Maybe if you yourself left the superficicality at home youd have better chances at finding girls. Seems to me like all yovue ever are the "mean girls" type, the superficial ones and anything else in your eyes are ugly. shit starts with you bud, sovle it with you.
Of course i could be wrong but i doubt it, that or you were raised very male chauvinistic or with some kind of inferior complex.
Remember, there are exceptions to every rule. But just because it didn't go exactly that way for you doesn't mean it goes like that for the majority of others. What I sated above is the majority, could be 51% of hte time or 90%, don't know. Just know it's the majority.
Also how old are you?
and when you say majority, you should be clear that its in reference towards you. not majority of all females. or whatever but be specific in what you mean, not generalized.
and when you say majority, you should be clear that its in reference towards you. not majority of all females. or whatever but be specific in what you mean, not generalized.
But I was speaking in general terms, I cannot speak for every individual. Only observe and collect data to be able to say "Generally".
It's like saying "Generally most adults have a drivers license" because most do. There are exceptions, but it's not the rule.
I love how I can go and read someone's aloof ramblings into deism and science and then come and read something like this from the same person.
and when you say majority, you should be clear that its in reference towards you. not majority of all females. or whatever but be specific in what you mean, not generalized.
But I was speaking in general terms, I cannot speak for every individual. Only observe and collect data to be able to say "Generally".
It's like saying "Generally most adults have a drivers license" because most do. There are exceptions, but it's not the rule.
Well damn son if you think you come into contact with that many women who are as you say, you must live in one fucked up world of shallow ass people. But i must say, dont judge the whole species on that limited experience and dont get me wrong, i understand what yer saying and have met bitches like that.
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i think hes saying you shouldnt ask yourself for advice?
nope. that was the mistake i made before, thinking they were rational common sense people.
nope. that was the mistake i made before, thinking they were rational common sense people.
The problem is that you assume you are a rational common sense person.
No silly, you're confusing him with mmateri.
It's not that women don't like nice guys. Women don't like weak males. It is just a coincidence that nice guys are usually weak males too. Try to be an alpha and women will respect you more. You don't have to play games to get chicks dude. Just stop trying to be the sensitive guy you see in movies and commercials all around. Read some books or something on the subject. Travel. Meet foreign women online. Meet foreign women in person. Taste the rainbow. Try new things. Stop worrying about pussy. Listen to some Tom Leykis. Enjoy life.
It's not that women don't like nice guys. Women don't like weak males. It is just a coincidence that nice guys are usually weak males too. Try to be an alpha and women will respect you more. You don't have to play games to get chicks dude. Just stop trying to be the sensitive guy you see in movies and commercials all around. Read some books or something on the subject. Travel. Meet foreign women online. Meet foreign women in person. Taste the rainbow. Try new things. Stop worrying about pussy. Listen to some Tom Leykis. Enjoy life.
Haha, yeaah...sure. Either you live in a fucking backwards shithole, or you're just deluded.
Nobody likes a pussy. Basic human psychology. Everyone wants a certain level of confidence. But nobody likes an overpusher. "Alpha", "bad boy", treat women like shit...that's just a myth created by virgin, sexist, overcompensating men who know nothing of the real world.
Women do not like wankers. The end.
Just stick to girls at the same level on the 10-point scale and you'll be much happier, wolffey... they're just as fucked up and insecure as you.
And one more protip: next time you pick up a hooker, fuck FIRST pay AFTER. Or at least half-now-half-later it. The touch of a professional might make you hate women marginally less.
Nobody likes a pussy. Basic human psychology. Everyone wants a certain level of confidence. But nobody likes an overpusher. "Alpha", "bad boy", treat women like shit...that's just a myth created by virgin, sexist, overcompensating men who know nothing of the real world.
Women do not like wankers. The end.
I think we're on the same page with this one for the most part. You can have alpha attributes and treat women with respect. It has nothing to do with sexism or mistreating women. The reason women like the "bad-boys" is because they exhibit a strong personality that nwome are attracted to. They're not necessarily attracted to the shit these guys carry with them(some people like abuse though). Yet, for the most part there isn't a more attractive male out there for the most part unless the girls "get lucky". Another option for women is to go for alpha males(strong males), have their children, then have beta males(pushovers, guys that cry at movies, "yes dear" guys) raise them. Good survival skills. They get the strong genes from some mean dude(biological tricks really), and the stability and security of a guy who busted his ass to get a high paying job, but has no balls. Everyone wins really. This is just a basic idea. There are plenty of people out there who have healthy relationships and don't have to worry about this sort of thing. If you're a man, be a man though.
Wolffe. Prostitutes? Jeux had some good advice for you.
Nobody likes a pussy. Basic human psychology. Everyone wants a certain level of confidence. But nobody likes an overpusher. "Alpha", "bad boy", treat women like shit...that's just a myth created by virgin, sexist, overcompensating men who know nothing of the real world.
Women do not like wankers. The end.
You're totally right... if you're picking up chicks in their 30's and 40's.
An alpha does not demand respect, they command it through their presence and demeanor. Me for example, I'm actually very good at controlling my anger for the most part BUT when the moment comes with my woman that I feel truly disrespected I don't approach it uber passive like I do most problems, I make it very clear that I am fucking pissed off and that the nice guy they're used to has left the building.
Sorry Tuoni, but I don't quite think the advice of a transsexual in this matter would be best. Perhaps which dress accents flat hips, but not this topic.
Taking it in the ass doesnt count fairyboy.
The fact that I'm a tranny makes it all the better advice. I've spent the last 10 years thinking about gender (and all it's classes and variances), sexuality, sex, to the brink of insanity and back. Along the way I've had several psychologists (cognitive, sexual, behavioural) discussing with me and trying to help me. FFS, I rightly feel I should get an honorary Psy.D. or Ph.D. for the shit that I've gone through, at least I'd have something concrete to show for my ordeal.
Well, I guess you haven't thought that that's when you really become mature? You don't just turn 18 one day and become wise and mature. There's a reason why MILFs are awesome.
No. That's the whole point of equality and anti-sexism, you don't behave how someone tells you to just because of your hormonal/physiological/reproductive/etc gender, you behave like yourself. Also, maybe you live in a shitty part of the world, but you'd be surprised (from your point of view) what "women" really think.
Maybe if you spent a few years studying gender, you too would finally open your eyes and see the insignificance.
Just stick to girls at the same level on the 10-point scale and you'll be much happier, wolffey... they're just as fucked up and insecure as you.
And one more protip: next time you pick up a hooker, fuck FIRST pay AFTER. Or at least half-now-half-later it. The touch of a professional might make you hate women marginally less.
hahaha, you're going to lecture me? says the girl who is a total expert on long term (and marriage) relationships. Do me a favor and talk about the actual topic, not insert attacks against me every chance you get because your just PMS'ed at me pointing out how your an irresponsible parent & a failure of a wife.
There's a reason why MILFs are awesome.
you fuckin said it chica!
There's a reason why MILFs are awesome.
you fuckin said it chica!
Tru dat